It’s no secret that many women are attracted to bad boys (and if you find yourself in this subgroup, take the first step to recovery by reading this post on how to break a bad-boy addiction). But we often forget that this attraction goes both ways—men are also into “bad” girls. So how can a "good" girl compete?
By striking a balance between the two, of course. Let's take a look at some of the things that make so-called "bad" girls attractive and how "good" girls can emulate them without going over the edge.
She’s adventurous. A “bad” girl doesn’t sit on the sidelines—she jumps into the action. She’s willing to try anything at least once. So show off your fearless side by planning an active date, cooking an exotic food, or suggesting a new sex position.
She’s confident. A “bad” girl doesn’t ask if she looks good—she knows she looks good. She isn't afraid to show off her talents in and out of the bedroom. Take your cue from her confidence by sharing your skills with your significant other: If you're a pool shark, for example, challenge him to a game and wager something seductive, such as a massage.
She’s sexy. You won't spot a "bad" girl wearing sweatpants in public. Rather, her outfits scream sex appeal. And she's perfected her smoky eye application to jealousy-inducing perfection. While no one wants to be "on" 24/7, it's easy to get dolled-up for date nights. Whip out a new dress that shows off your best assets—and make your date squirm by telling him what's underneath looks even better.
She doesn’t wait—she initiates. A "bad" girl gets what she wants because she goes for it. "Good" girls can get what they want too, by identifying their desires and being open to expressing them. So, make the first move the next time you're in the mood, and tell your man what you want in bed.
How else can can women find a balance between being a "good" girl and a "bad" girl? I'd love to hear your ideas!